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Episode 4127 minwith Nicole Votano

Don’t Be That Guest: Modern Etiquette for Stylish Women

In this episode, host Anna Anisin is joined once again by fan-favorite Chef Nicole Votano, a chef, founder, and one of the warmest voices in food, hospitality, and modern connection.

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Whether you’re hosting a dinner party, joining a group gathering, or just trying to make the right exit without making it awkward, this episode is your go-to guide.

👠 Key Moments:

  • What to do before you show up (especially in group settings)
  • How to contribute thoughtfully if you’re not the host
  • What not to do at the table (no side-eyeing the bill, y’all!)
  • How to leave gracefully, without ghosting or overstaying
  • And why manners and presence still matter in a hyper-digital world

Chef Nicole and Anna break down the do’s and don’ts of being a polished, intentional guest, and how you can show up in a way that reflects grace, confidence, and self-awareness.

🎧 Listen now for a conversation that’s equal parts chic and grounded, and learn how to elevate your dining energy without ever picking up the check first.

Adding a chic twist to each episode, the 'I Want Her Shoes Podcast' is recorded in Anna’s stunning personal closet, strategically located near the vibrant Miami Design District. This unique setting not only provides a visually captivating backdrop but also embodies the spirit of fashion and innovation that the area is known for.

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EPISODE CREDITS:

Writer and Host: Anna Anisin

Produced, edited, and mixed by the Formulatedby Team

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